“I dream to discover more about my authentic unfiltered personality by discovering at least one personal hobby that brings me joy.”

Dream Achievement Forecast: July 2022

Why?

I have worked very hard over the last decade to create a personality that can fit in and helps support me avoid scary vulnerability. However, this has prevented me from making real friends and keeping it up is exhausting and lonely.
Because I don’t really know myself authentically I have never given myself the space or courage to find a hobby, something that I like to do that is not just going along with someone else.
Due to me having no hobbies I do not have anything outside of work and my husband that brings me joy which has been exacerbated by working at ctc – I need something other than work to relieve my stress and refuel me

How?

1. I will try 2 new things each month (no more than 1 of those things can be fitness related)

2. I will invite someone to join me in that new experience at least 1x every 2 months

3. My first milestone will be accomplishing my goals for 3 months consistently

4. My second milestone will be when I choose one thing to try more than 2x per month (something that sparks joy)

5. I will have accomplished my dream when I have chosen one hobby that brings me joy measured by me partaking in that hobby 2-3x per month (depending on the hobby) for 4 months consistently

6. Bonus points if I am able to bring a friend to join me in that hobby consistently
8,000 extra points if I make a new friend from that hobby